My husband loves to say that he can choose to be right OR happy. While it is meant as a joke, this statement does have validity. In relationships, you quickly learn that it is not always about being right. People will forget what you say, but they will always remember how you made them feel.
The challenge in marriage is learning to see more than just one right opinion. As we mature, we learn that nothing is black or white because there are many shades of gray that fall in between. In order for us to have an integrative discussion, we must focus on the elements that can be agreed on. To increase your COMmittment, reflect on how your words or lack of words has effected your spouse. Instead of focusing on being right, change your frame to find points that you agree on.
Lee
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